Two teenagers aged 16 and 17 years old starred for nearly month a story where the keywords were "Kalimba" "alcohol", "excesses", "brothel", "hotel" and "rape." After a week of detention, the singer and DJ was the order of authorities' freedom of Quintana Roo, who determined that there was no evidence to initiate a trial for rape in prejudice of the children.
The case was an example of a reality: there are underage girls early, they are more open to handle their sexuality and not measure the consequences of their actions, which may expose them to situations of risk.
The generation gap
Just look at the accounts of Facebook or other social network of some girls and even girls almost, which are photos of them alone or accompanied by friends in sensual poses, showing the tongue or sending a kiss to the camera and how to use particular data mirrors. I look sexy today is to express to what is being prepared, and it seems that age does not matter. still remember, for example, teenagers outside Camino Real Hotel with placards with slogans such as "Chicharito, do me a son" or Chicharito, make me yours "during the visit of the Mexican to Monterrey last year.
Meanwhile, parents, grandparents and uncles worry and wonder, "How this child came out so blown away?" "do not you ashamed?" and "Where were decency?".
Times have changed and in this aspect of sexuality is a important generational divide. The teacher Myriam Garza Bahena has noticed a big change between the generation of 2010 and 2000, the year he began to teach high school students .
"They have no responsibility, makes them easy to say things and not measure the consequences," says the 50 high school teachers José Vasconcelos.
"It is true that young people are open and explicit, but we are realizing that they are linking with informality and lack of respect for relationships." For the school psychologist Marina Pérez Martínez, change behavior became more evident five years ago. "I feel that coincided with a generation of mothers who took it for fact that girls were eligible to take the initiative, but not realized how much," says the therapist. "It was like: 'a repressed me, I could not say how handsome!, then she says,' but they were in front." Experts attribute part of this change media culture that has influenced teenagers who are forming their identity at this stage through models.
Those who were teenagers in the early 90's or before were not touched, for example, there was a list available online for famous artists that appear in photos or videos with sexual content as Paris Hilton.
also was not the same content of the soap operas of "Carousel" or "kids" than "Rebel." Not even the commercials, in which perhaps it was common to see ads towels intimate feminine but not pharmacological treatments for any man to have better sexual performance.
Even in television spots can be seen today in 10 minute any time of day, suggesting to young people condom use, promoting sexual practice earlier age. For just one example. Psychologists say that there are children who start having sex from age 12.
"And it is not we were more demure, but there was this barrage of information, "says Adriana Pastrana, Director of the Institute of Psychotherapy and Sexual Education.
Sex Education half
Psychologist Brenda Oliva Cruz, member of the Mexican Association for Sexual Health, said that the messages that the girls between 15 and 18 years send about their sexual experience indicates openness, without however, wonders how are interpreting these messages. For example, says, girls who are developing their thinking psychosexual receive messages through different media as "Be master of your sexual expression, the expression of your body and your life decisions erotic-sexual." "The integrated as you can and get it more for the part of 'I can express myself as you want, say what you like, make my body what want'," says sex educator, who works with children and adolescents in Mexico City.
"I think more than opening has to do with the ignorance of kids, "says the psychologist. She criticizes those who oppose him information about sexuality to children for fear that they adopt a promiscuous sexual behavior. information to children, considers must be accompanied by content about respecting one's sexuality.
María del Refugio Avila, executive secretary State Institute for Women, explains that this generation has a better chance development because more half of the adolescent population and completed secondary algo que no se veía hace 30 años. "Esto trae consigo un cambio en los patrones de relación entre hombres y mujeres porque socializamos más, con mayor nivel educativo, y con más redes globales de comunicación", explica. "En ese sentido la sexualidad la expresan como si fuera un símbolo de estatus o poder, pero eso no significa que estén maduros para llevarlo a cabo".
En los últimos datos de la Encuesta Nacional de Salud y Nutrición, advierte, la tasa de embarazo en niñas adolescentes, de entre 12 y 19 años, fue de 79 per thousand women. "According to the report almost 700 000 adolescents have been pregnant " specified. Also, the group most affected by the virus that causes AIDS are 15 to 19 years, according to COESIDA. Why should this situation? A lack of sexual education, the experts are unanimous.
"They live their sexuality according to their instincts, they have no information," said Pastrana , who refers to adolescents. While sex education has focused on the biological, not is doing to the moral and social, says Pérez Martínez. "How am I a child?, How much I can show me off?, what are the social rituals that they expect me to do? is the missing piece," says the therapist. "This is training the house because the rules of each family that determine how or if you are not accepted, because there is no general consensus ." Meanwhile Oliva Cruz agrees that there is a gap at the emotional level of sexuality, partly because of parental neglect. "The part that we are finding very difficult is the attitude, that is what still failing," he explains. "Although the modification of attitudes is most difficult, the advantage is adolescents age because they are in the process of acquiring a lot." And these "many things" to assimilate are messages that come to minors through electronic media. However, experts, parents are well prepared in terms of sexuality and open to dialogue with their children early can form a special shield them.
CHILDREN What should you do?
You, daughter or son, you need to know:
* Strategies to resist pressure, coercion or sexual exploitation . Know escape risk, how to say "no" seriously.
* How and why your body changes.
* About pregnancy, conception, AIDS and other sexually transmitted infections and sexual how to prevent them.
* The importance of abstinence and contraceptive prevalence rates.
* What your parents think of sexual matters, which is important for them and what they think about what is right or wrong.
PARENTS
You, Mom and Dad should know:
* Say "no" to unwanted behavior is safe and clearly communicate what they think about sexual behavior.
* Express ideas clearly as
- "You do not have permission to ..."
- "Your future goals are more important than moments of sexual pleasure."
- "I care about you and want to make sure you know how to protect yourself."
- "Talk, hug and kiss, but do not have sex "/" Go to the movies instead of being alone. "
* Give reasons and explain why you want to keep your daughter or son to safe.
This will help you understand your concerns and prevent it from reacting
negatively.
* Talk openly about feelings for the relationship to grow and relieve any tension.
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